Hello my beloved friends!
It has been a while since I've had a chance to email because of transfer craziness.
If you don't already know, I am staying in Gahanna with Sister Garner for another 6 weeks! I am happy with that fact..now. Originally I wanted Sister G and I to both leave. Sister Garner agreed. Now, you have to hear me out. We don't hate each other, or the area. The problem is that we actually love it here too much. At the conclusion of this last transfer Sis Garner hit her 6 month mark in Gahanna. It's amazing that she's been able to stay for so long and meet so many great people, but on the other hand that is a third of her mission.
During transfer week we switch our P-day to Wednesday, the same day we receive information about whether or not we'll be moved. If you are being transferred you have Wednesday night to say goodbye to everyone and pack, and then Thursday morning you meet your new companion.
Sister Garner and I hit a 110 on the stress level just thinking about transfers.. I cannot even imagine the real deal..
Transfers are a big deal not only for missionaries, but investigators, ward members, and leaders too. Everyone wants to be prepared and naturally they make predictions. By Tuesday night half of the ward members had written Sister Garner off, sad as they may be to see her leave, and the other half were convinced with enough prayer she would stick around another 6 weeks. Honestly, at this point I hadn't really thought about what I wanted to happen, I just knew that no matter the outcome, hearts would be broken. It's a consequence of having a missionary in an area long enough to build the strong relationships that get work moving. Oh what a paradox!!!.
After much stress laden deliberation, and anxiety driven discussions, Sister Gee-wiz and I came to the conclusion that the most probable and beneficial thing to do would be to send her off. Here was our thinking:
Sister G had been in the area for 6 months, so one more transfer would mean 7 1/2, at which point she will hit her year mark. That's not really typical. The members love her so much, and she returns the feelings, that it will be incredible difficult for everyone to move on when she leaves. We thought it'd be best to rip it off like a band-aid. Ultimately we both decided that there just needed to be a change for the area.
We were wrong.
Late Tuesday night I prayed with all my heart that Gahanna would see the change it needed, and that if that was to have Sis Garny leave, so be it. As an answer I had a dream where we were trying to invite one of our most progressing investigators, Kim, to church. We knocked and knocked but she wouldn't answer the door because I had a new companion. I woke up and I knew that Sister Garner would stay, and that it was because of Kim. Kim is married to a convert who wants her to be baptized very badly. Kim has been being taught by missionaries (originally Elders) for a whole entire year. She is baptist and struggles with the BOM, Joseph Smith, and Priesthood Authority. Looking forward, there were a lot of obstacles to overcome.
So we made it our mission. Our transfer goal is to baptize John and Kim. WE will be the change that Gahanna needs to see.
Miracles happen. We had an amazing lesson with Kim and her husband. He bore the strongest testimony and invited her to be baptized, on a date that he had a dream about. SHE ACCEPTED.
I am reminded of the Bible Dictionary definition for prayer as I write this story. "Prayer is the act by which the will of the Father and the will of the child are brought into correspondence with each other. The object of prayer is not to change the will of God but to secure for ourselves and for others the blessings that God is already willing to grant, but are made conditional on our asking for them."
God knows best. I learned by praying that I can be the change, and that with Faith, we can work miracles.
I love you all, as does He.
Sister Mitchell

